Circumstances are uncontrolable, life events happened.
Our responsibility is to choose our responses which is our attitude. Situations may colored the view of our life but we have the power to choose what color that horizon will be. God has an amazing plan for our life.
Duetronomy 6:23&24
God brought us out from which we were into(suffering) to bring us in into his Plan and glory.
And He command us fear the Lord for our OWN GOOD always.